By Brittni Barcase
The four tenets of Gentle Parenting include empathy, respect, understanding, and boundaries.
A few days ago, my son was having some big feelings. I approached him with the gentle parenting guidelines in mind— got down on his level, acknowledged his feelings and then named what was happening for him …
Well, surprise, surprise. I’m human. Today he wanted to play with something that is not a toy, and I did a “no” sandwich … a few times. His feelings got bigger, I lost my patience and I yelled.
And you know what he did? HE YELLED BACK AT ME.
Brittni Barcase is a Health Educator at Jewish Community Services
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