By a JCS Contributor
As the new school year approaches, both excitement and anxiety can start to bubble up for students and parents alike. This year, however, the return to school is accompanied by an increasingly recognized mental health crisis. The pressures of academic expectations, social dynamics, and the ongoing stressors of modern life can create a challenging environment for maintaining mental wellness. According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), 1 in 5 youth aged 13-18 experiences a severe mental disorder at some point during their life, making it essential for parents and educators to be proactive in supporting students’ mental health. The transition back to school after summer break can feel like a wild rollercoaster ride—full of ups and downs, twists and turns. But don’t worry! With a little preparation and some clever strategies, you and your family can turn this back-to-school adventure into a smooth and enjoyable journey. Buckle up and check out these practical, sanity-saving tips to help manage back-to-school anxiety and stress. Let’s make this academic year the best one yet!
Establish a Routine
Routine is a great way to keep anxiety at bay. Establishing a consistent daily schedule provides a sense of security and predictability. Gradually reintroduce school-year bedtimes, wake-up times, and meal schedules a couple of weeks before school starts to make the transition smoother.
Open Communication is Key
Encourage open communication within your household about feelings regarding the upcoming school year. Ask open-ended questions and listen actively to concerns. Validate feelings and reassure that it’s normal to feel nervous about new experiences. Creating a safe space to express emotions can alleviate stress and build trust.
Visit the School
Familiarity can reduce anxiety. Take advantage of the back-to-school and welcome events sponsored by the school. They give you and your child the opportunity to see the classroom, meet the teachers, and explore the school grounds. This can help demystify the new environment and make the first day less intimidating.
Encourage Social Connections
Friendships play a crucial role in emotional well-being. Encourage reconnecting with friends from the previous school year and making new ones. Arrange social gatherings or join extracurricular activities to foster social interactions. Feeling connected to peers can provide a strong support system. In fact, a study by the American Psychological Association (APA) found that social support is a key factor in reducing stress and improving overall well-being, particularly for children and adolescents.
Teach Coping Skills
Equip your student with coping strategies to manage anxiety. Techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, and positive visualization can help calm the mind. Practice these skills together and remind each other to use them when feeling overwhelmed.
Monitor Screen Time
While technology can be a valuable educational tool, excessive screen time can contribute to stress and anxiety. Set limits on screen time and encourage activities that promote relaxation and creativity, such as reading, drawing, or spending time outdoors.
When to Seek Help
Despite your best efforts, there may be times when additional support is needed. If you notice persistent changes in behavior, mood, or academic performance, it might be time to seek professional help for your child. Signs that someone could benefit from a licensed professional include:
- Excessive worry or anxiety
- Significant changes in sleep patterns or appetite
- Losing interest in activities once enjoyed or isolating from friends and family
- Frequent emotional outbursts or tantrums that seem out of character
- A sudden drop in grades or a lack of interest in schoolwork
Prioritize Self-Care!
Don’t forget to take care of yourself, too. Make self-care a daily habit by including physical activity, meditation, and healthy nutrition in your routine. Keeping your body and mind balanced will help you better support your child during this busy season.
Finally, remember that by being aware of the mental health challenges and taking proactive steps to address them, we can create a supportive environment that fosters well-being for everyone. You’re not alone on this journey. Together, as a community, we can navigate these challenges and work towards a healthier future.
A JCS Contributor
Jewish Community Services (JCS) provides programs and services for people of all ages and backgrounds, helping them achieve their goals, enhance their well-being, and maximize their independence. To learn more, visit jcsbalt.org or 410-466-9200.



